Lores Rizkalla Live

I'm stepping away from politics for a moment in order to share a personal situation with you.

My siblings and I have lived our entire lives right here in Los Angeles. We are relatively close. Over the years, I watched my brother transform from a trouble maker and gang banger (no exaggeration) to a young man of character, integrity and accomplishment.

My brother and I live in the San Fernando Valley, attend the same church and share many mutual friends. I was delighted to watch my "little brother" fall in love and get married a year ago.

You know how it feels when someone you're close to (friend or family). As excited as you are, there is a slight sadness and slight feeling of loss to have to share that person with their beloved. However, he married a wonderful woman, who had been a friend of mine before they ever knew each other. I was moved to tears as I saw them come together, divinely.

Several months ago, my brother and his wife decided that they would be moving to Nashville for his work. We've talked about it. I saw pictures of the house in Nashville. I helped them pack. But, not until today, moving day, did it hit me. Hard.

I'm actually excited for them to get a fresh start, even if it is in NashVegas! However, what struck me today is how "busy" our schedules have been. So busy that I have regrets about not having made more of an effort to spend time with them. Being in the same city, the same family or the same building with someone can never substitute for real, quality time.

We live in such "busyness" that it often takes some earth-shattering event to remind us of our priorities. Our father is getting older and has been sick over the years, so I can't help but think about the time I'm spending with him. Things can change overnight. Peggy Noonan recently reminded us of what was on the minds of the victims of 9/11.

Thankfully, there is no crisis. My brother is just fine and Nashville, while it may feel like a third-world country, is just a short flight away. However, the reminder is critical. Let's not get too busy to say "I love you" and to spend time with people above all else. What accomplishment is there without the life and love of those we cherish most?

I pray that busyness doesn't keep me or you from set first things first now.